Comments on: Talk is Cheap http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815 A Little of This, A Little of That Thu, 09 Sep 2010 16:17:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Ginger http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4169 Ginger Mon, 08 Jun 2009 20:06:46 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4169 My first husband was the same way. He probably said "I love you" two or three times every day. I guess he thought that made up for cheating on me, lying to me, punching me in the face, not paying our bills, screaming at me in public (at church, actually)belittling me in front of family and friends, refusing to let me go to the Doctor, threatening to kill my dog and treating our middle son as if he were not part of the family. Yeah, fun times. Thanks for posting this, Jan. It's nice to know that I'm not the only woman that was married to a slimy rat fuck bastard. As far as my second husband goes....I consider him my prize for everything I went through. Like your Beloved, he shows me a hundred different ways, every day, from my cup of coffee that he brings to me in bed every morning to my kiss goodnight, that he loves me and cherishes me. <abbr><em>Gingers last blog post..<a href="http://gingereebs.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/a-flower-macro-monday/" rel="nofollow">A Flower (Macro Monday)</a></abbr></em> My first husband was the same way. He probably said “I love you” two or three times every day. I guess he thought that made up for cheating on me, lying to me, punching me in the face, not paying our bills, screaming at me in public (at church, actually)belittling me in front of family and friends, refusing to let me go to the Doctor, threatening to kill my dog and treating our middle son as if he were not part of the family. Yeah, fun times.

Thanks for posting this, Jan. It’s nice to know that I’m not the only woman that was married to a slimy rat fuck bastard.

As far as my second husband goes….I consider him my prize for everything I went through. Like your Beloved, he shows me a hundred different ways, every day, from my cup of coffee that he brings to me in bed every morning to my kiss goodnight, that he loves me and cherishes me.

Gingers last blog post..A Flower (Macro Monday)

]]> By: GiGi @ Incrementum http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4149 GiGi @ Incrementum Fri, 05 Jun 2009 16:33:40 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4149 Yeah my ex was an asshole too. Pardon the ugly word. But without his crap I'm not so sure I would appreciate The Boyfriend as much as I do now! <abbr><em>GiGi @ Incrementums last blog post..<a href="http://gigidiaz.wordpress.com/2009/06/05/its-friday-omg/" rel="nofollow">It’s Friday!!! OMG!</a></abbr></em> Yeah my ex was an asshole too. Pardon the ugly word. But without his crap I’m not so sure I would appreciate The Boyfriend as much as I do now!

GiGi @ Incrementums last blog post..It’s Friday!!! OMG!

]]> By: iambellaluna http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4139 iambellaluna Fri, 05 Jun 2009 13:11:21 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4139 That's karma. You're a lucky girl to have "Beloved." Thanks for dropping by. & excellent spin :) <abbr><em>iambellalunas last blog post..<a href="http://iambellaluna.blogspot.com/2009/06/i-feel-robbed-jon-kate8suck.html" rel="nofollow">I Feel Robbed: Jon & Kate+8=Suck!</a></abbr></em> That’s karma. You’re a lucky girl to have “Beloved.”

Thanks for dropping by. & excellent spin :)

iambellalunas last blog post..I Feel Robbed: Jon & Kate+8=Suck!

]]> By: Joanie M http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4132 Joanie M Thu, 04 Jun 2009 21:28:16 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4132 I'm glad you found the real thing the second time around. Great spin! <abbr><em>Joanie Ms last blog post..<a href="http://joanies-random-rambling.blogspot.com/2009/06/keepsake-blog-award.html" rel="nofollow">Keepsake Blog Award</a></abbr></em> I’m glad you found the real thing the second time around. Great spin!

Joanie Ms last blog post..Keepsake Blog Award

]]> By: Rufor http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4117 Rufor Thu, 04 Jun 2009 09:57:12 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4117 Super post, Need to mark it on Digg Thank you Super post, Need to mark it on Digg
Thank you

]]> By: Casey http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4116 Casey Thu, 04 Jun 2009 03:30:20 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4116 After reading that, I want to get my hammer and bash that ahole's face in. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that crap but I'm glad you found one of the good guys on your second go round. Your ex sounds a lot like my ex, only in it for himself, couldn't keep his junk in his pants and just an all around jerk. Fun times. <abbr><em>Caseys last blog post..<a href="http://halfasgoodasyou.com/?p=5003" rel="nofollow">Spin Cycle: Love Hurts</a></abbr></em> After reading that, I want to get my hammer and bash that ahole’s face in. I’m so sorry you had to deal with that crap but I’m glad you found one of the good guys on your second go round.

Your ex sounds a lot like my ex, only in it for himself, couldn’t keep his junk in his pants and just an all around jerk. Fun times.

Caseys last blog post..Spin Cycle: Love Hurts

]]> By: Anne Gibert http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4115 Anne Gibert Thu, 04 Jun 2009 02:34:57 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4115 You are very brave to post that, and I am so glad you did. Now I don't have to, since it would all be so repetitious. The difference is that I married one of those, then married another with all the same qualities (the second was more fun, bot more violent)and then married a nice but self absorbed alcoholic. I didn't get to the ideal man until I reached the age of 74! We have had 3 wonderful years, and are hoping for several more before one of us checks out. The one way yours is better than mine is that he puts lovely comments on your blog. Lucky girl. <abbr><em>Anne Giberts last blog post..<a href="http://20thcenturywoman.com/?p=554" rel="nofollow">Manley Hot Springs, past and present</a></abbr></em> You are very brave to post that, and I am so glad you did. Now I don’t have to, since it would all be so repetitious. The difference is that I married one of those, then married another with all the same qualities (the second was more fun, bot more violent)and then married a nice but self absorbed alcoholic. I didn’t get to the ideal man until I reached the age of 74! We have had 3 wonderful years, and are hoping for several more before one of us checks out. The one way yours is better than mine is that he puts lovely comments on your blog. Lucky girl.

Anne Giberts last blog post..Manley Hot Springs, past and present

]]> By: Twenty Four At Heart http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4114 Twenty Four At Heart Thu, 04 Jun 2009 00:53:50 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4114 Awwwwwwww! What a great, wonderful, fantabulous post. Loved every single word of it! <abbr><em>Twenty Four At Hearts last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/24AtHeart/~3/km6NsOe72Ck/my-hole-gave-birth-to-a-monster.html" rel="nofollow">My Hole Gave Birth to a Monster</a></abbr></em> Awwwwwwww! What a great, wonderful, fantabulous post. Loved every single word of it!

Twenty Four At Hearts last blog post..My Hole Gave Birth to a Monster

]]> By: SSG http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4113 SSG Wed, 03 Jun 2009 22:19:29 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4113 It's so true. I'd rather someone showed they loved me than told me they loved me. You can only judge a man by his actions, not his words. Some time I'd like to talk with you about how you've changed, why you once accepted what he said and now you wouldn't stand for it. My ex-husband put me down a lot. I'm glad I was only with him 3 years, but even now I wonder how I got into that place, where he could put me down and I accepted it. It's a gradual process, if someone told me I was fat on a first date I wouldn't see them again, so why was it OK then? I don't know, I hope I can prevent ever getting to that stage again in another relationship, if there is something I should be doing to stop being treated like that. Or maybe it had nothing to do with me. Somedays I'm still pretty confused. <abbr><em>SSGs last blog post..<a href="http://wakeupitstuesday.org/2009/06/hello-lovely-people/" rel="nofollow">Hello lovely people</a></abbr></em> It’s so true. I’d rather someone showed they loved me than told me they loved me. You can only judge a man by his actions, not his words.
Some time I’d like to talk with you about how you’ve changed, why you once accepted what he said and now you wouldn’t stand for it. My ex-husband put me down a lot. I’m glad I was only with him 3 years, but even now I wonder how I got into that place, where he could put me down and I accepted it. It’s a gradual process, if someone told me I was fat on a first date I wouldn’t see them again, so why was it OK then? I don’t know, I hope I can prevent ever getting to that stage again in another relationship, if there is something I should be doing to stop being treated like that. Or maybe it had nothing to do with me. Somedays I’m still pretty confused.

SSGs last blog post..Hello lovely people

]]> By: Monica http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815&cpage=1#comment-4112 Monica Wed, 03 Jun 2009 19:50:39 +0000 http://www.jbsitedesigns.com/?p=3815#comment-4112 Your first husband was a selfish little boy. It took a lot of strength to live through your first marriage...and even more strength to leave it. Beloved is a true man in every sense of the word. He is your blessing...and you are his. :) <abbr><em>Monicas last blog post..<a href="http://monica-thegreenehouse.blogspot.com/2009/05/spring-is-fading.html" rel="nofollow">Spring is fading....</a></abbr></em> Your first husband was a selfish little boy.
It took a lot of strength to live through your first marriage…and even more strength to leave it.
Beloved is a true man in every sense of the word. He is your blessing…and you are his. :)

Monicas last blog post..Spring is fading….

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